point to ponder - TWITTER

(baru2 nie aku dalam dilema sbb tersepit antara rakan2 yg dua2 aku cherish. tanak laa sbb twitter, friendship kami berantakkan, so sbb aku tatau nak cakap camne, aku decide nak luahkan disini saje, hopefully kalo org terbabit baca benda nie, baca dgn hati terbuka n jgn cepat melatah)

3-4 bulan lepas, mase tgh musim bonus rakan2 yg kerja disyarikat mnc nie, aku jadi emo apabila terdapat segelintir rakan2 yg tak abis2 cite pasal ape nak buat dgn bonus, komplen epf skit tak cecah RM10k laa, macam2 la. kalo seharian, aku tak kisah, tumpang happy la sbb rakan2 dpt bonus. tp kalo berhari2 cite pasal bonus je, aku pun naik angin, sbbnye aku almost everyday kena stayback, kena dgr bos jerit2 n tengking n bonus tu pun belum tentu dapat. pastu baru nak gosip2 dgn gembira bersama rakan2 di twitter utk mengilangkan rase depressed dan stressed, tgk timeline penuh dgn cite pasal bonus. camne laa aku tak rasa dunia nie tak adil bile ade org dpt bonus berpuluh ribu leh seharian dok main twitter mase ofis hour cite pasal bonus tu. maybe aku je kot yg tertekan masa tu, so aku stop twitter jap utk beberapa hari smp surut cite bonus.nak unfollow, rase cam over sgt, kawan2 kot. 

so, now, if benda seumpamanya jadi lg, aku just zip/mute kan twitter  tu buat seketika. unless kalo mmg tak dpt diubati lagi, aku unfollow jela. (tp kekadang kalo over sgt aku kekadang terikut emo). frankly speaking, mmglaa tadek documented guidelines / etiquette utk bertwitter, but i think some of this, mmg patut sentiasa diobserved:

1. kalo twit tu adalah berunsurkan gosip yg tak elok, takyahlaa sebar2kan if tak betul dh jadi fitnah

2. if you think the twitter makes u feel uneasy, sakit hati, or whatsoever, it is either u tell directly to them or u mute them or you just unfollow them. easy. (i done that last year to a fren, sbb aku rase die sgt hipokrit dan annoying)

3. u are not always right. so accept that. or else jgn laa complaint asik ilang followers.

having said that, mmg laa kite ade freedom to twit just anything, tp if we constantly twitting about the house, the pay, the sacrifices, the car bukan ke at the end tu melambangkan who we are actually; which is in this case, we are that sumbody who loves ourselves too much or we are the one who loves to brag. 

so y not everytime b4 we hit the send button, please reconsider how our twit would affect other, in positive or negative way. 

n once again, we can always unfollow a twitter, as maybe to us some of the twitter is not worth to follow anymore.

pesanan penaja >>> jgn smp sbb twitter. kite gaduh2 sesama kita. sekian. terima kasih. 

renung...renungkan~

- towards a peaceful TWITTER-